Serious Dating for Over 50s

Looking for something lasting? Compare the dating apps built for long-term relationships.

Top 3 serious dating platforms, focused on long-term love.

Our recommendation

Unmatched

9.8

Hookups, no strings. 200K+ active singles, free to join, fully discreet.

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Decent

9.4

Casual encounters near you. Discreet, free to join, active UK members.

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Good

9.1

Flirty fun, no commitment

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Friends with Benefits - Hookups, no strings. 200K+ active singles, free to join, fully discreet.

10,000+ active users online tonight
Direct chat with verified profiles

Unmatched

9.8

Shag - Casual encounters near you. Discreet, free to join, active UK members.

Casual encounters near you.
Discreet, free to join, active UK members.

Excellent

9.4

NaughtyCharm - Flirty fun, no commitment

Discreet messaging with real singles
Free to join, first message in 2 minutes

Excellent

9.1

Friends with Benefits - Hookups, no strings. 200K+ active singles, free to join, fully discreet.

Ideal age 21+

9.8

Unmatched

Shag - Casual encounters near you. Discreet, free to join, active UK members.

Ideal age 25+

9.4

Decent

NaughtyCharm - Flirty fun, no commitment

Ideal age 25+

9.1

Good

If you want a relationship rather than a casual chat, it helps to choose an app where people feel the same. Serious dating apps often ask for more detail in your profile and use questionnaires to suggest compatible matches.

Signs of a serious dating app

Detailed profiles and a personality or values questionnaire
Members who say they are looking for a long-term partner
Profile checks and active moderation
A paid membership, which tends to discourage people who are not committed

Be clear about what you want

Say in your profile that you are looking for a lasting relationship. It saves time and helps you meet people with similar goals.