Dating After Divorce Over 50

A fresh start after divorce. Compare the dating apps that help over-50s meet people who want something real.

Ourtime
Ourtime - The #1 dating site for over 50s. Events & activities included.
Ideal age 50+
9.8
Unmatched

User rating: 4.9 stars out of 5

Most popular
Match
Match - UK's leading dating site since 1995. 1.6M+ active members, verified profiles. Free to join.
Ideal age 25-50
9.4
Excellent

User rating: 4.7 stars out of 5

eHarmony
eHarmony - The UK's most trusted matchmaking algorithm. 2M+ successful couples.
Ideal age 30+
9.1
Excellent

User rating: 4.6 stars out of 5

Shag
Shag - Casual encounters near you. Discreet, free to join, active UK members.
Ideal age 25+
8.5
Decent

User rating: 4.3 stars out of 5

FriendsWithBenefits
FriendsWithBenefits - Casual dating for adults. No strings attached.
Ideal age 20+
7.7
Decent

User rating: 3.9 stars out of 5

Divorce later in life can feel daunting, but it is also a chance to begin a new chapter. Many people in their 50s and 60s find that they know themselves much better and want something genuine this time round.

Getting ready

  • Give yourself time: there is no rule about when to start dating again. Begin when you feel ready.
  • Know what you want: a long-term partner, a companion or friendship. Say so in your profile.
  • Keep your profile positive: talk about what you enjoy and look forward to rather than the past.

Choosing the right app

Pick an app where most members are over 50 and looking for a serious relationship. Check that it has profile checks and a way to report problems, and try the free version before you pay.

Meeting people safely

Chat in the app, then speak by phone or video before you meet. Choose a public place for your first date and tell someone where you are going.

Use our ranking to compare the best dating apps for over 50s in the UK.