Dating Over 40

Over 40 and looking for something real? Compare the best apps for mature singles.

Ourtime
Ourtime - The #1 dating site for over 50s. Events & activities included.
Ideal age 50+
9.8
Unmatched

User rating: 4.9 stars out of 5

Most popular
Match
Match - UK's leading dating site since 1995. 1.6M+ active members, verified profiles. Free to join.
Ideal age 25-50
9.4
Excellent

User rating: 4.7 stars out of 5

eHarmony
eHarmony - The UK's most trusted matchmaking algorithm. 2M+ successful couples.
Ideal age 30+
9.1
Excellent

User rating: 4.6 stars out of 5

Shag
Shag - Casual encounters near you. Discreet, free to join, active UK members.
Ideal age 25+
8.5
Decent

User rating: 4.3 stars out of 5

FriendsWithBenefits
FriendsWithBenefits - Casual dating for adults. No strings attached.
Ideal age 20+
7.7
Decent

User rating: 3.9 stars out of 5

Many people over 40 know exactly what they want from a relationship. A good dating app helps you meet others at the same stage of life, whether you are newly single or have been on your own for a while.

What to look for

  • Members in your age range, living near you
  • Profiles with real detail rather than just a photo
  • Clear safety tools and fair pricing

Compare the apps in our ranking and start with a free profile.