Serious Dating for Over 50s
Looking for something lasting? Compare the dating apps built for long-term relationships.
Ourtime
Ourtime - The #1 dating site for over 50s. Events & activities included.
Ideal age 50+
9.8
UnmatchedUser rating: 4.9 stars out of 5
Most popular
Match
Match - UK's leading dating site since 1995. 1.6M+ active members, verified profiles. Free to join.
Ideal age 25-50
9.4
ExcellentUser rating: 4.7 stars out of 5
eHarmony
eHarmony - The UK's most trusted matchmaking algorithm. 2M+ successful couples.
Ideal age 30+
9.1
ExcellentUser rating: 4.6 stars out of 5
Shag
Shag - Casual encounters near you. Discreet, free to join, active UK members.
Ideal age 25+
8.5
DecentUser rating: 4.3 stars out of 5
FriendsWithBenefits
FriendsWithBenefits - Casual dating for adults. No strings attached.
Ideal age 20+
7.7
DecentUser rating: 3.9 stars out of 5
If you want a relationship rather than a casual chat, it helps to choose an app where people feel the same. Serious dating apps often ask for more detail in your profile and use questionnaires to suggest compatible matches.
Signs of a serious dating app
- Detailed profiles and a personality or values questionnaire
- Members who say they are looking for a long-term partner
- Profile checks and active moderation
- A paid membership, which tends to discourage people who are not committed
Be clear about what you want
Say in your profile that you are looking for a lasting relationship. It saves time and helps you meet people with similar goals.