Dating After Losing a Partner

When you feel ready, there is no right or wrong way to begin again. Find gentle, trusted places to meet new people.

Ourtime
Ourtime - The #1 dating site for over 50s. Events & activities included.
Ideal age 50+
9.8
Unmatched

User rating: 4.9 stars out of 5

Most popular
Match
Match - UK's leading dating site since 1995. 1.6M+ active members, verified profiles. Free to join.
Ideal age 25-50
9.4
Excellent

User rating: 4.7 stars out of 5

eHarmony
eHarmony - The UK's most trusted matchmaking algorithm. 2M+ successful couples.
Ideal age 30+
9.1
Excellent

User rating: 4.6 stars out of 5

Shag
Shag - Casual encounters near you. Discreet, free to join, active UK members.
Ideal age 25+
8.5
Decent

User rating: 4.3 stars out of 5

FriendsWithBenefits
FriendsWithBenefits - Casual dating for adults. No strings attached.
Ideal age 20+
7.7
Decent

User rating: 3.9 stars out of 5

Losing a partner changes everything, and nobody can tell you when, or whether, you will want to meet someone new. If you feel ready for companionship or romance, that is completely valid, and so is taking things slowly.

Take it at your own pace

There is no timetable. Some people are ready after a year, some after many years. A dating app lets you set the speed: you can browse quietly, chat when you feel like it and decide later whether to meet.

What can help

  • Say what you are looking for: friendship, company or a new relationship. Being open helps you meet people who want the same.
  • Choose a supportive community: apps for mature singles are often full of people who have also been through loss and understand.
  • Talk to someone you trust: let a friend or family member know you are trying online dating.

Protect yourself

Unfortunately, scammers sometimes target people who are grieving. Never send money, be cautious if someone says they love you very quickly, and speak to a friend if something feels wrong.

Compare the apps in our ranking when you feel ready, and start with a free profile.