The big day has arrived and you are about to meet someone you have been chatting to. A little nerves are completely normal. These tips will help you relax and enjoy it.
What to do
Have a few topics ready
You do not need a script, but think of a couple of questions about their interests and a story or two of your own. It keeps the conversation flowing and helps with any quiet moments.
Be honest
You do not have to share everything on a first date, but never lie about your work, past or interests. Honesty builds trust and avoids awkwardness later.
Smile and listen
A warm smile puts people at ease. Show you are interested by listening and responding to what they say.
What not to do
Do not choose the cinema
Sitting in a dark room in silence is not ideal for getting to know someone. Save it for a second or third date.
Do not talk too much, or too little
Aim for a balance. Ask questions, but avoid it feeling like an interview. If you tend to be quiet, make an effort to share a little about yourself.
Do not look at your phone
Unless there is an emergency, leave it in your bag. Giving someone your full attention is one of the nicest things you can do.
Finally
There is no perfect formula. Arrive on time, be yourself, trust your instincts and enjoy the occasion. If you are looking for ideas on where to go, see the 5 best places for a first date.
